"I'm not jealous." And that’s true, until your relationship gets really serious. It is quite common for people who are not jealous by nature to suddenly flip over and then... well the situations range from funny to pathetic; dangerous to scary. Think about it.

"Where were you?", "Who is she/he?", "What did you do last night?", and “What took you so long?", "Is that a blond hair??" are all annoying and insulting questions; every proper relationship guide will advise you to skip them. Even if the other person loves you unconditionally and infidelity is a part of the picture, your sick fantasies are capable of destroying everything. Congratulations! Everyone has a limit of tolerance and nagging constantly will not solve the problem here (if it even exists); furthermore this will most likely create a brand new, this time, real problem. As a result your boyfriend/girlfriend will ignore you. The logic here is simple - less talk means reduced chance to reply to irritated lines like: "You talk a lot about that new girl in the office" or "um, you’re hanging out a lot with the girls lately. Why is that?"

This is like any other obsession; the constant search for infidelity clues is like a drug. You will think about it more and more until you are completely obsessed! And what will you do to your beloved one? In the end he/she might actually cheat on you, because you never got off their nerves ("At least now your fears are reasonable. Happier now?").

Don’t you think it’s funny how you check the laundry, his/her Facebook and Skype accounts for “evidences”!? It is absurd to become a real-life Sherlock Holmes (asking your friends to help you stalk your partner).

The jealousy is a love killer. So stop watching “CHEATERS,” turn his computer off and put down her cellphone! Remember, jealousy is highly addictive, keep your mind and conscience clean!

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